love is about sacrifice. u give up certain things for people willingly because u accept them for who they are and u dun require them to change. but this selfless act, (assuming the r/s is a mutual loving one) will in turn cause the other party to sacrifice something in return out of love and gratitude.Hence this would result in an endless cycle of love where both parties are blissfully happy, both in giving and receiving. However, the intention and motivation of giving is not to expect a return and the other party should never expect to receive first w/o before giving and vice cersa (assuming that they continue the trend marked out above)

so in essence, the art of giving will result in one receiving. then of cuz people would question who's to give first. i think it doesn't matter. let us put societal expectations and personal pride and ego aside and consider: if we can live with less pride, ego and mental stigma/stereotypes, then things would not be unneccessarily complicated and that makes u and i a happier person.

let us embrace life and world with a less complicated mind and heart. Never mind certain defenses we must have to survive in this dog eat dog world, that aside, we can still give and carry out acts w/o asking for return. but as a rule of thumb for the rest of the world, they should never give criticism if they're never gonna do anything bout any problems. they merely kill off the few healers that have been quietly yet labouriously working, healing where they can.

-X

i cant believe that match ended at 63-15 when the sun shone no more. messed up.

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